562 Words Essay on Quote “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Meaning Of Quote “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” – Mahatma Gandhi
Strength in Forgiveness
In these troubled times, it would not be wrong to say that all of us have been hurt for some reason or the other, by other people, in our lives. Be it the seething fumes of humiliation or the undying embers of the agony of rejection, be it the anger we feel at having been deceived, cheated upon, abused, or the regret we feel when we haven’t got what we expected, it isn’t ever easy to forgive. To choose the path of revenge is the most natural reaction, for most of us. It is when one looks beyond the hurt, learns to accept hurt as a part of the parcel called ‘life’, while also learning from the past and staying aware, that one has actually grown stronger, has learned to let go and to forgive.
More often than not, the greatest quantity of hurt seems to come from those who play crucial, significant roles in our lives. The magnanimity of this hurt leads us to judge if we can forgive the perpetrator or not. It is very important for our own emotional stabilities, to understand that forgiveness, just like revenge, is an option, a choice with its own consequences.
There are many ways in which we could have been hurt. Some cause minimal damage to us, while others are much more severe. In some cases, we may really have been the unknowing victim of those who has hurt us. However, sometimes, we let ourselves believe that we have been devastated when we ourselves had placed our trust and our expectations in the wrong people. We might even become so obsessed with playing the role of ‘victim’, moping around in self-pity, that we start to believe that forgiveness would mean letting go of a major part of who we are. That revenge is a necessity, like the air we breathe. However, if one looks closely enough, one can see that by letting our lives be dominated by hatred, the need to render even more hurt to the perpetrator, we build a negative image of ourselves, an inability to ever trust again, and more importantly, we automatically let the perpetrator have more control over us. To free ourselves from the damage, no matter how incredible it might have been, and to salvage our own lives, means that we are ready to give ourselves a chance to heal, to put the dark matters of the past behind us.
It is important to understand that we forgive others for our own selves, not for the people who have hurt us. Forgiveness isn’t about accepting the wrong that had been done to us or even trying to minimize the damage. Nor does it make us look like we are sacrificing our self-worth and our honor. In fact, it is about taking a stand that speaks volumes about our strength, declaring our own integrities, saying that we have learnt from the past and can avoid being harmed in a similar manner in the future, and at the same time, says that we have finally freed ourselves from playing the role of the victimised.
Unburden yourself from the pains of your past hurt, and you have achieved a newfound freedom, the strength to carry on and keep going, no matter what.